In this article I'm going to tell you exactly what women want. Because I know that's what you want to know. But I also know that knowing that won't help you at all. So, to make it useful I'll translate each desire women have into something you can do something about.
So much relationship advice for guys focuses on figuring out what women want. And that's understandable. Even if it is a huge waste of time. It's like trying to come up with the plot for the next big Hollywood movie by surveying people on the street to see what stuff is the most popular. Or trying to be president by letting
the polls make all your decisions for you.
Good relationships like good movies and good leadership come from creatively expressing your own unique adventurous spirit with courage and confidence.
But once a man is in a relationship that has turned bad it is extremely difficult for him to separate learning to creatively express himself from trying to attract and impress her. If that's you here's your broom.
1. Women want to feel safe. You can create the opportunity for her to feel safe by understanding and learning mastery of yourself. This is about facing your fears and learning that you can be afraid and still do what you have to do. I recommend you make a list of some of your most common fears. Avoid anything really dangerous. Everyday find a way to face one of those fears. For example, take your MP3 player to a crowded mall turn on your favorite song and sing along from beginning to end.
2. Women want to be led like a dance. Being a leader involves three things. Having some place to go. Taking the actions that will get you there. Being able to invite others along. Most people need work on all three.
3. Women want to be noticed. Noticing how she looks is just step one. Being in a relationship is really being given a ticket on the adventure ride of a lifetime. Because everyone is an adventure with unlimited twists and surprises. If you stop trying to get something out of her instead just start paying attention you might find more than you expected.
4. Women want to be heard. She's got opinions. She has desires and emotions. She has dreams. Find out what they are. Bring them all up and admire her for them when she least expects it.
Make good eye contact. Work on building your adventure. And work on those four things every woman wants and you might just surprise yourself with what happens.
So much relationship advice for guys focuses on figuring out what women want. And that's understandable. Even if it is a huge waste of time. It's like trying to come up with the plot for the next big Hollywood movie by surveying people on the street to see what stuff is the most popular. Or trying to be president by letting
the polls make all your decisions for you.
Good relationships like good movies and good leadership come from creatively expressing your own unique adventurous spirit with courage and confidence.
But once a man is in a relationship that has turned bad it is extremely difficult for him to separate learning to creatively express himself from trying to attract and impress her. If that's you here's your broom.
1. Women want to feel safe. You can create the opportunity for her to feel safe by understanding and learning mastery of yourself. This is about facing your fears and learning that you can be afraid and still do what you have to do. I recommend you make a list of some of your most common fears. Avoid anything really dangerous. Everyday find a way to face one of those fears. For example, take your MP3 player to a crowded mall turn on your favorite song and sing along from beginning to end.
2. Women want to be led like a dance. Being a leader involves three things. Having some place to go. Taking the actions that will get you there. Being able to invite others along. Most people need work on all three.
3. Women want to be noticed. Noticing how she looks is just step one. Being in a relationship is really being given a ticket on the adventure ride of a lifetime. Because everyone is an adventure with unlimited twists and surprises. If you stop trying to get something out of her instead just start paying attention you might find more than you expected.
4. Women want to be heard. She's got opinions. She has desires and emotions. She has dreams. Find out what they are. Bring them all up and admire her for them when she least expects it.
Make good eye contact. Work on building your adventure. And work on those four things every woman wants and you might just surprise yourself with what happens.
Does she think she has you all figured out?
Treats you like you are old news?
My FREE guide will help you learn to...
Treats you like you are old news?
My FREE guide will help you learn to...
- Access and express your feelings.
- Unhook from trying to impress her
- See her rejections as cute
- And awaken her inner pornstar.
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